There really is no comparison.
Some women believe that their only duty in raising a child is to push them out.
Some father's believe that their only duty as a father is to provide the sperm cell.
Then they take it upon their own decision to
KEEP IT HOT.
Leaving this child handicapped of atleast ONE parent to guide them through life.
Funny, you'll catch the same deadbeat father screaming.."Life is a bitch!"
Well, imagine what your son is thinking, when they can't make the right "manly" decision, due to lack of guidance.
Or what your daughter thinks when the first man who calls her pretty asks for some of her jewels.
Could you imagine?
Of course you could imagine. You too were once a child.
Now, I can talk about deadbeat fathers all day.
But deadbeat mothers are all in a league of their own.
Excuse my French but B*TCHES.
What the hell is wrong with you?
Where are your maternal insides?
The connection between a child and his or her mother is UNEXPLAINABLE.
When this is absent, you take on the resemblence of some ALIEN.
What the hell are you?
Where did you come from and why don't you go back?
Daily, young women are molded into being what they should NOT be.
And there you GO.
Giving NOTHING to the young girl who will grow up a confused woman. Hopefully, society will be kind to her and allow her to mold correctly.
Hopefully.
I mean is that what you think when you wake up in the morning and tend NOT to your children, but to other things that have no assistance in you being a better woman?
We must not, as mothers allow what happened in our past, reflect how we will present ourselves in our future.
Not one drug addiction, man addiction, poverty level, or any other hangup should discourage you from being a MOTHER to your child.
Nothing.
Its not how many times you fall, but how many times you get back up.
Not one of us is perfect. In our children's eyes we are valuable.
Respect that.
Understand That.
Get on your jobs because NOTHING is worse than a DEadbeat Mother.
Nothing.
Today's announcement was short and straight to the point.
Feel free to add to my blogspot and let deadbeat mothers know how you feel.
Thanks
XoXo
Chakara
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