I was asked to respond back to this madness, because alot of men felt like they SCORED, on behalf of the words for "Slim Thug" on BET's website.
Now.
Let me start off by saying, no disrespect to this brother. Although, the fact that he sits like seven feet in the air, weighing well over 250 pounds, tells me that his perception on things are a bit flawed, since he calls himself "Slim Thug". Moving right along though....(lol)
The problem I have with the entire callout is that everyone wants to blame the "black woman."
Black women dont do this right
Black women dont do that right
Black women
Black women
Black women
The attacks have gotten outrageous, yet the follower antics created by certain men to try to IMPRESS these "women", have grown tremendously.
I mean we won't treat our men like kings, but meanwhile our "men" are acting like clowns, by smoking, drinking, being promiscuous, and disowning their responsibilities like the sperm cell they released, that grew into a CHILD.
Enough of that will make any real WOMAN, black or white, wake up.
I wish like hell I would cater to a man, who doesnt care enough about himself to CATER to his health, his financial stablity, his CHILDREN, and his community.
See to gain the title King, you gotta walk the walk.
Being born MAN, does not make you a King breh'.
Every man cant rule a kingdom. Every man isn't fit for the job.
Therefore, every man will not get treated as such.
Now, Slim Thug said: "Most black men who are "successful" are extinct. So women have to bow down and start cooking, working hard, and standing by their black man. Not, holding their heads up high and walking past us.
Excuse my foul language, but dude WTF?
I'd love to see you tell your daughter to treat Lil Killer from the Lou like a King because he is a MAN.
See, I skimmed after reading that, and to be honest..his entire interview was one big contradiction.
Its funny because he'd catch himself, when whining about what black women need, then realize that brothers aint doing that shit either.
See, this is my thing.
From the beginning of time, men were born leaders, kings.
Then as time passed by, and they were just BORN. Ya dig.
Every man is not a king Sweetie.
Every man may see themselves as a KING, but he really couldn't handle a kingdom.
Shoot, some men can't even handle the BILLS.
So picture royal treatment.
Another thing Slim Thug: You are what you attract.
If you walk around with jewels dripping from both ears, your neck, your wrist, etc..you get what you give off.
You get those women who are after your money, because your exterior presents just that.
If women are after your money, then its probably because you are flashing it to attract them.
Think about it.
Yet somehow women have the same expectation to be treated like a queen while dressing and behaving like the village tramp. There is some merit to his statements. Too often women approach their relationships and interactions with men based on what their own selfish desires. You want to be taken to Top of The Tower on a first date, flown out of town after 2 weeks, shopping for Chanel cuz you gave him a phone number. So a man runs this gambit of expense and indulgence long enough to be classified as your man, then the real fun starts. The choruses of "I don't do that" and "I'm not yo momma" ring loudly and often. The consistent disrespect of the man because you somehow feel entitled to say or act however simply because you are a "strong, independent" black woman. Really? As men and women we have lost sight of our roles in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteThe problem is Slim Thug is a trick, he has to use his money to attract women because he has no game. When you have to spend or show money to get women to cooperate they lose respect for you because they see you can be easily controlled. Black women may be more perceptive of a trick and take advantage quicker than women of another race but all women feel this way towards a man they can easily get money from. They may like, love and want to sleep with you but they won't respect you. If you laying up with someone who doesn't respect you they are liable to do anything. A man must get a woman's respect first, after that it's a cake walk. You don't get a woman's respect if she throw her pussy at you and get anything she wants. You have to be a man that demands respect weather you work at Walmart or a platinum rapper.
ReplyDeleteas far as black women as a whole go it's rare that I see a black woman who is very eligible having man problems or attitudes. Black women who are in shape, no kids, no drama, and come from stable homes are in my experience very easy to talk to and don't have bad attitudes. When I experience a lack of respect from a black woman it's usually from women I shouldn't be dealing with or they aren't that attractive in the first place. They are either multiple baby mamas, hood rats, overweight or obese, or something about their upbringing is screwed up.
So worrying about these type of females is like worrying about the qualifications for working at McDonald's. Who cares, it's McDonald's!!!