The Love Assassination

-says the single lady who stays clear of men who may cause death of the only thing she has that pumps blood AND gives her the ability to FEEL.

HER heart.

Speaking from a woman's point of view, when we LOVE, we love hard. Its in our nature to love with our everything, because well....we rely on our emotions for everything. Our emotions sometimes serve as our guidance, and although this may seem like a weak admittal.....its our strength in a lot of ways.

A woman's love is so pure and STRONG that without the nuturing and warm embrace of a MOTHER, infants would die. Hmmph. Take that.

(lol)

Our emotions serve as our strength as well as our weakness.

Our emotions are what we rely on when all else fails.

This is why we are vital pieces of this planet.

Without emotion guided creatures by nature, this world would be COLD

Antartic COLD.

Catch that lol.

I created this blog because so many times, love hurts, and women need that WARNING sign placed in front of them year round.

This blog serves as a detour from that agonizing pain you will experience if you do not feel for whats in front of you before indulging.

Choose carefully.

You don't want that hurt.

That uncontrollable hurt.

That hurt that leaves you daydreaming of "what could have been", beating yourself up with "why me's" , and committing the crazy crimes of "serial calling and texing."

Ladies who have been in breakups they couldnt really control, should definitely understand this feeling.

A woman who slides all of her chips on to the playing table, and gets them all taken away by her love opponent.

Its a man's nature to block emotion. During bad breakups, women often wonder why they're not getting the response they really want from the man who broke their heart.

We would really like for the accused, or "box-cutter" of the relationship", to say.."Baby, I'm sorry. I love you. Let's work it out."

BUT

Normally that doesn't happen. I mean a dog will commit a DOG act, and carry out his mutty role until the end.

And well...usually when we do get those types of mushy submissions...we don't really want them.

We have this thing with wanting something RARE from a man, because its gives us the EMOTION of feeling special.

We appreciate it because we know that he wouldn't normally react that way.

Yeah I know....

Yeah we are confusing creatures.

Dont ask.

As women, we want things from certain men that we just will not get.

Thats what you call unrealistic LOVE.

Its not realistic for love to survive, in the midst of tainted trust and a combustion of lies.

Its not realistic for love to cause relentless tears and vocal cord straining screams of "why?"

Its not realistic for love to make one unbalanced in life, deflecting them from everyday life duties.

Its not realistic to love someone before loving your damn self.

You will become assassinated by this unrealistic type of love.

It might be one of those bloody spills type too.

BE AWARE.

If he ACTS like he's capable of HURTING YOU.

He will.

If he ACTS like your feeling dont matter to him.

They dont.

If he TELLS YOU he doesnt love you.

He doesnt.

Simple.

Dont become....

ASSASSINATED BY LOVE.

Step wisely.

XOXO CHAKARA